What Is Your Philosophy? | How To Start An Online Business

Alston filmed this one from the front seat of his Kia Sento. Kids’ car seats in the back. Crumpled breakfast wrappers on the floor. No Lamborghini, no rented mansion, no fake lifestyle. Just a guy parked somewhere in Wisconsin, reading a book called Oversubscribed and trying to get his thoughts in order before hitting record. That image is the whole point of the video.

What follows is Alston’s actual philosophy for starting an online business, the one he wrote down in his favorite lined notebook before pulling out his phone and talking into it in a public parking lot. Not a framework someone sold him. Not a PDF from a guru. His own hard-won beliefs after six or seven years of running online businesses, watching people succeed, watching more people quit, and trying to figure out what actually separates the two groups.

What You’ll Walk Out With

  • The single mindset shift that separates people who build online businesses from people who talk about building them
  • Why online business is supposed to be boring, and why that is actually good news
  • The athlete analogy that explains why you won’t see results for months and why that’s normal
  • The one question that should make you feel embarrassed in the best possible way
  • Why showing your face on camera is no longer optional in the age of AI
  • How to figure out what to sell without guessing or spending money on research
  • Why “everything is too saturated” is the excuse of someone who hasn’t started yet
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The Biggest Reason Most People Fail Before They Start

Alston’s philosophy starts with a blunt observation: anyone can start an online business, everyone should, but most people don’t. And the ones who do start usually quit. The reason is not that they picked the wrong niche, bought the wrong course, or lacked the right skills. The reason is that they are wired to expect a return on every single action they take.

Push the gas pedal, the car accelerates. Work eight hours, get a paycheck on Friday. Take an action, see a result. That is how most of adult life works, and our brains get conditioned around it. When someone launches an online business, they carry that same programming with them. They create a landing page, write a blog post, upload a TikTok. Then they wait for something to happen. And when nothing happens, they conclude that it doesn’t work.

The problem is not the niche. The problem is the expectation. Online business does not reward individual actions. It rewards accumulated effort over time. You push the gas pedal and the car moves, but there is a delay between the push and the acceleration. For new business owners, that delay can be three months. It can be six months. In some cases it can be longer. Most people are not built to operate in that gap without external validation, and so they stop before anything has a chance to compound.

Online Business Is Boring. That’s the Secret.

Alston’s first blog was in the security camera space. He had no particular passion for security cameras. He would sit down to write, start nodding off, jerk himself awake, write a few more sentences, start nodding off again. Part of that was sleep deprivation from having young kids. Part of it was that writing about security cameras at midnight is genuinely not exciting. But he went back the next day and wrote another post. And the day after that.

Creating a YouTube video is boring. Filming a talking-head video in your car in a parking lot is not glamorous content creation. Creating thirty TikToks in a single hour, the way some content strategies require, is tedious work. Writing blog posts, scheduling email sequences, responding to comments, optimizing descriptions: none of it feels like success while you are doing it. All of it feels like unpaid labor with no guarantee of a return.

That feeling is not a sign that something is wrong. That feeling is the job. If you can sit with the boredom and show up anyway, you are doing something most people are not willing to do. The successful people in online business are not the ones who found a way to make it exciting. They are the ones who got very good at doing boring tasks repeatedly without needing those tasks to feel rewarding in the moment.

The Athlete Mindset: Practice Without a Game

When Alston played college basketball, practice started on October 15th. The first game was in mid-November. That means a full month of two-a-days: lifting, running, drilling, scrimmaging, running more. None of it counted toward anything official. There was no scoreboard, no crowd, no stat line. Just a gym and a coach telling you to run another sprint.

Athletes accept this without complaint because they understand the structure. The work you put in before the game determines what happens during the game. You do not get to skip the practice phase and go straight to the reward. The reward is not separate from the preparation. It is the direct result of it.

Building an online business follows the same structure. The first three to six months are practice. You are creating content that almost nobody will see. You are developing skills in real time, in public, with little to no audience. You are building habits and systems that will carry you when things do eventually start to work. If you quit before the game starts, you never find out whether the practice was going to pay off.

There is a quote Alston referenced in this video: someone reportedly yelled at Kobe Bryant that nobody was in the gym shooting with him. The point being that nobody sees the work that goes into a successful career. They see the result. They see the championship rings and the scoring records. They do not see the 4 AM gym sessions, the missed social events, the years of doing the same boring drills without a camera or an audience. Online business works the same way. Nobody sees you grinding out content in year one. They see you when you have momentum. The boring early years are invisible to everyone but you.

Show Up for Yourself the Way You Show Up for Your Boss

Alston spent years as a software developer and then as a center director at Concordia University of Wisconsin. He managed one of the satellite centers in Kenosha. He showed up every day, wrote code, handled administrative work, did the repetitive stuff that kept the operation running. He did not love every hour of it. Some of it was genuinely tedious. But he showed up because there was a paycheck attached to it.

The question he wants you to sit with is this: if you are willing to show up every single day for someone else, doing the same boring tasks in service of their goals, why are you not willing to do the same thing for yourself?

The common answers are tiredness, hunger, needing to decompress after a long day. Alston names these for what they are: excuses. Not all excuses come from laziness. Some come from a genuine lack of belief that the effort will pay off. Some come from not trusting yourself to execute. But the structure of the excuse does not change what it does, which is prevent you from building anything.

If you gave your online business the same minimum effort you give your job, consistent daily presence regardless of mood or energy level, most of the failure rate in online business would not exist. The bar is not heroic discipline. The bar is showing up the way you already show up somewhere else.

Show Your Face or Stay Stuck

Alston is direct about this one. He had seen a wave of comments from people saying they do not want to show their face on camera. He disagrees, and he explains exactly why.

In 2024 and beyond, AI can produce text, images, and increasingly video. Audiences know this. When someone lands on a faceless blog or watches a voiceover video, they have a legitimate question in the back of their mind: is this a real human being or a machine? That question creates friction. Friction kills trust. Killed trust kills sales.

When you show your face and look directly into the camera, you remove that friction immediately. There is no question about whether you are real. People see your eyes. They make a judgment about who you are. Alston mentioned that a Reddit thread identified him as one of the trustworthy YouTubers in his space, and his read on why is simple: he looks at the camera. People can see him. People who bought his products or clicked his affiliate links did so in part because they could look at his face and decide whether they trusted him.

He makes a harder point here too. If you are not making money online and you are not willing to show your face, you have chosen to keep an obstacle that someone else in your exact niche has already removed. They do not look better than you. They do not have a better product than you. They are just willing to be visible in a way you are not. That willingness is doing real competitive work against you.

Alston says clearly: he has no sympathy for people who have tried everything except showing their face. He has full sympathy for people who have shown their face everywhere, made every piece of content they could make, and still have not found traction. Those are two very different situations.

Stop Consuming, Start Creating

Alston’s version of this is simple: consumers spend money, content creators make money. If you want to be on the making side of that equation, you have to shift your ratio of consumption to creation.

He admits he falls into the TikTok scroll trap himself. You open the app to get inspiration for your own content, and ten minutes later you are watching something completely unrelated. The pull is real. The platforms are designed for it. But every ten minutes you spend as a consumer is ten minutes you are not spending as a creator, and the compounding math works against you over time.

His rule of thumb: for every two pieces of content you consume, make at least one piece of content. Watch this video. Now go make two things. Put them out. The worst that can happen is that nobody watches. The best that can happen is that one person sees it and thinks, this person is speaking directly to me. That one person can become a follower. That one follower can become a buyer. Every business has a first customer, and that customer came from somewhere.

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Your Market Will Tell You What to Sell

One of the most useful pieces in this video is how Alston describes the path from content creator to business owner. He did not start by designing a product and then looking for an audience to sell it to. He started by creating content consistently, and his audience eventually told him what they wanted to buy.

He never planned to sell courses. He did not want to build courses. But after creating content for long enough, direct messages started arriving. Emails started arriving. Comments started appearing. The question was always some version of: do you have a course? People had built a relationship with him through the content. They knew him, they trusted him, and they wanted to go deeper than a free YouTube video could take them. The course was not a product he invented and then pitched. It was a response to demand that already existed.

He uses the example of creating content about being a parent of twins. You talk about the chaos, the logistics, the things that worked, the things that failed. You do this consistently for months. At some point, parents of twins find your content and recognize themselves in it. They start sending messages asking for toy recommendations, book recommendations, chore charts, planners, anything that could help them manage the situation you clearly understand. You now have a product idea that came directly from your audience, validated before you spent a single hour building it.

This is why Alston says your market will tell you what to do if you do it long enough. The audience provides the direction. Your job is to show up consistently enough that the audience has time to find you and tell you what they need.

Nothing Is Too Saturated

Alston anticipates the objection because he hears it constantly: the niche is too saturated. Everyone is already doing it. There is no room for another voice.

His answer: everything is saturated and nothing is saturated, because your stories are not interchangeable with anyone else’s stories.

He played college basketball. His team was bad. He was a bench player. He has years of material from that experience, the road trips, the blowout losses, the locker room dynamics, the specific memory of flying to Florida and getting destroyed in two games. Hundreds of thousands of people have played college basketball. But nobody has Alston’s stories told in Alston’s voice from Alston’s perspective. Some subset of the people who played college basketball will hear those stories and feel exactly seen in a way no other content has made them feel.

That is the answer to saturation. You are not competing with every other creator in your general topic area. You are competing to be the specific voice that resonates with a specific group of people who share your particular slice of experience. Your version of the story is the only one that exists. Nobody else can make it.

Honest Drawbacks of This Philosophy

This philosophy is correct and it is also uncomfortable. Here is what Alston does not sugarcoat, and a few things worth naming plainly.

The delay before results is real. Three to six months of consistent content creation with minimal feedback is genuinely hard. Most people reading this will not do it. That is not a pessimistic take, it is what the data shows. Alston says he can often tell from a comment whether someone actually wants to succeed or just wants to watch videos about success. That distinction matters and most people land on the wrong side of it.

Showing your face has real barriers for some people. Alston acknowledges this briefly but does not soften the conclusion. He understands that there are reasons people are reluctant, but he maintains that those reasons are obstacles you choose to keep rather than obstacles you have no control over. Whether or not that framing feels fair, the practical reality is that faceless content performs worse in an environment where AI has made audiences more skeptical of everything they cannot visually verify.

The secret recipe is also the least satisfying answer. Find something you love to talk about and talk about it on the internet. That is genuinely the whole thing. It does not require a specific tool, a specific platform, a specific content format. That simplicity frustrates people who are looking for a specific system. The system is just: talk about a thing you care about, do it consistently, for long enough that people find you. Most people want more steps because more steps feel more actionable, but the real work is in the patience, not the complexity.

Alston also names something that is hard to sit with: he cannot want success for you more than you want it for yourself. He has three hundred comments a day on his channel. He tries to respond. But he can see when someone is genuinely trying and not getting results versus when someone is looking for the path of least resistance. He has no solution for the second group. He points that out not to be harsh but because it is true.

Find Your X

Alston’s philosophy comes down to one practical starting point: find the thing you can talk about without running out of things to say, and start saying it in public. That is the business. The product comes later, when your audience tells you what they want from you. The income comes later, when you have enough trust built up that people are willing to pay you for the next step. The momentum comes later, after months of showing up when nothing visible was happening.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How long should I expect to wait before seeing results from my online business?

Alston says three to six months is a realistic window for seeing the first signs of traction when you are starting from zero. That is not three to six months of sporadic effort. That is three to six months of consistent daily action. People with existing large email lists or communities can see results much faster because they already have the distribution in place. If you are starting fresh, plan for at least six months before you draw any conclusions about whether what you are doing is working.

Do I really need to show my face on camera to succeed?

Based on what Alston says in this video, yes. His argument is that in an environment where AI can produce text and images and increasingly video, audiences are more skeptical than they have ever been. Showing your face removes the question of whether you are real. Someone in your niche who shows their face has already removed an obstacle that you are keeping if you choose to stay faceless. You can build without showing your face, but you are making an already hard thing harder.

What if I genuinely don’t know what topic to build around?

Alston’s answer is to think about what you can talk about without running out of things to say. Not what you are the world’s foremost expert in. Not what has the least competition. What can you speak to from actual lived experience? College basketball, parenting twins, managing a university satellite center: he uses examples from his own life that are not conventionally “profitable niches” but are authentic and therefore sustainable. Start with what is real before you optimize for what is profitable.

What if my niche seems too saturated to break into?

Alston’s position is that saturation is not the real problem. The real problem is believing your version of a topic is interchangeable with everyone else’s. Your stories are unique. The way you tell them is unique. The specific experiences that shaped your perspective are not duplicated anywhere. You are not trying to outrank every creator in your general topic area. You are trying to become the specific voice that a specific subset of people cannot find anywhere else. That group exists in almost every topic you can name.

How do I figure out what to sell without spending money on market research?

Create content consistently and wait for your audience to tell you. Alston did not design his courses by researching what would sell. People kept asking him whether he had a course. That repeated question was the market research. Direct messages, comment section questions, email responses: all of these are free data about what your specific audience wants from you specifically. The longer you create, the more data you collect, and the more targeted your eventual offer can be.

Is this philosophy different from what other online business educators teach?

The core message, that consistency matters more than tactics, is not unique to Alston. What is different is his emphasis on the athlete mindset as the mechanism for sustaining consistency. He is not saying motivation will carry you. He is saying you need to reprogram your reward structure so that showing up to practice is the daily goal, not seeing a game result. Most online business education focuses on tactics. This video focuses on the operating system underneath the tactics.

What does “getting good at the boring stuff” actually mean in practice?

It means developing real competence in the daily operational tasks of content creation: writing, filming, editing, publishing, responding to comments, building a list. These tasks are not glamorous. They do not feel like building a business while you are doing them. They feel like maintenance. Getting good at them means they take less time, cost you less energy, and produce more consistent output over time. The people at the top of any content niche are almost always just people who got very good at boring tasks through repetition.

Can someone with a full-time job realistically build an online business?

Yes, and Alston implicitly argues that a full-time job actually proves you can do it. If you are already showing up to a job you may not love, five days a week, doing repetitive tasks in exchange for a paycheck, you have already demonstrated the discipline required. The question is whether you are willing to redirect a fraction of that same discipline toward something that builds equity for yourself rather than for someone else. He does a lot of his reading and thinking from his car during transition time between other commitments. The capacity exists. It is a question of allocation.

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Sources

  • Alston Godbolt, “What Is Your Philosophy? | How To Start An Online Business,” YouTube, https://youtu.be/QgIEYtcESl0
  • Daniel Priestley, Oversubscribed (mentioned by Alston as his current reading during filming)
  • Alston’s notes from his personal lined notebook, referenced directly in the video

Helping 1 million working adults make their first $3,000 online with the skills they already have. Alston Godbolt, Platform Proof.