How To Start An Online Business | What’s Your Why?

Most people say the same thing when someone asks why they want to start an online business: “I want to make more money.” That answer is not wrong. But if money is the whole answer, you are going to struggle. When the results do not come fast, when the algorithm ignores your first twenty videos, when you spend three months building something and nothing happens, the desire to make money will not keep you at the keyboard. You need something underneath it.

Alston Godbolt recorded this video on a walk by Lake Michigan on a cold morning, around 35 degrees, fingers going numb, talking about the single question that separates people who quit from people who push through. What is your why? Not the surface answer. The real one. The one that explains why you are willing to be lonely, frustrated, and ignored for months before anything works.

What You Will Walk Out With

Why “I want to make money” is a starting point, not a why
The two personal stories from Alston’s childhood that shaped everything he built
The coaching student who almost threw away a perfect niche to copy someone else’s business
Why most people end up in the make money online space even when it is the wrong fit
The specific shift that happens when your online business starts working
A five-step framework for digging past the surface reason to your actual why
The excuses most people use as a reason not to start, and why none of them hold up
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The Money Reason Will Not Carry You

Every person who starts an online business wants to make money. There is nothing wrong with that. But if that is the whole reason, you are building on a weak foundation. When you are six months in and still at zero, “I want to make money” gives you nothing to hold onto. The money has not arrived yet. All you have is the reason you started, and if that reason is shallow, you will walk away.

Alston is direct about this: chasing the money makes the money harder to find. When you are in a niche just because you think it pays, that comes through in your content. Your work feels hollow. Your audience can sense that you do not actually care about the topic. You end up creating videos and posts you are not excited about, for people who are not excited by you, and the whole thing slowly falls apart long before it ever had a chance to work.

The why that actually works is the kind you feel at 6 AM when you do not want to get up, or at 11 PM when you are exhausted and still have one more video to edit. It is the thing that makes the grind feel worth it even before a single dollar hits your account. You do not have to have that fully formed on day one, but you have to start digging for it early, before the first hard stretch arrives and you are left with nothing to hold onto.

The Real Story Behind Alston’s Why

Alston grew up watching his father work third shift. Third shift means you work through the night and sleep through most of the day. The hours flip. You are basically absent around the clock, just at different times than a standard job. His dad missed basketball practices, soccer games, the moments that feel small in the moment but add up to a whole childhood. Not because he did not care. Because he had no other option. He was working. He was sleeping. He was catching up. That was the cycle.

One of Alston’s biggest pet peeves is being late. He talks about it as one of the few things in life you can actually control, and a lot of that feeling traces back to watching his dad rush from one obligation to the next, always a little behind, always trying to catch up on rest or on time. As a kid you absorb that pattern. It becomes part of how you think about what you want your own life to look like.

His mother worked two jobs as well. One was a government data entry job, which came with every federal holiday off, which meant she was occasionally sitting in the back of his classroom when he came in from recess. As a kid trying to be cool, that was complicated. But she also worked extra jobs on the side. On holidays, she and a friend would drive out to Highland Park, Illinois, the wealthy suburb north of Chicago where Michael Jordan used to live, and serve at dinner parties for the wealthy families there. Thanksgiving dinner at home first, then out to serve someone else’s holiday. That image stayed with him. Not as resentment toward his parents, who were doing what they had to do, but as a clear picture of what he did not want to reproduce for his own kids.

He also remembers Kmart layaway. If you wanted something as a kid, it went on layaway. You picked it out, paid it off a little at a time, and hoped it still fit by the time you could bring it home. When you are a growing kid, you might come back to clothes that no longer fit, shoes that are now too small. And he remembers the version of household budgeting where you had to know exactly when each bill was due so you could decide which one to pay first and which one to push to next week. That pattern is called robbing Peter to pay Paul, and it is the kind of low-grade financial stress that is exhausting in a way that most people who did not grow up with it never fully understand.

That is the actual why. Not “I want to make money.” The real thing is: I want to be first in line to drop my kids off in the morning and first in line when they walk out in the afternoon. He says it directly in the video. Right now, every single morning, he is in that drop-off line. His youngest son, who just turned five, played his first basketball game that same weekend. Alston was there for it. No boss to ask permission from. No paid time off to track. He was there because he built something that gave him that choice, and the choice to be present is the thing he was working toward the whole time.

The Student Who Almost Wasted a Perfect Niche

Alston has a coaching student named Tyson. For months, Tyson had been pushing to get into the make money online space. He wanted to create content about affiliate marketing, digital products, building an online business. Every coaching session, that was the direction he kept pulling toward. And every session, Alston kept pushing back: you should not create content about making money online if you have never made money online. That is not gatekeeping. It is a credibility problem. Your audience will eventually figure out that you are teaching something you have not done, and when they do, you lose them.

Then one Thursday, during a regular coaching call, Tyson mentioned something in passing. He does 3D printing of menorahs. Custom menorahs. He had photos of his work. They looked incredible. He had been charging $175 per piece for custom orders. He had been bringing up 3D printing in their conversations for months, but always as background detail, not as the main idea. In his own mind, it was a hobby. The real business was supposed to be the make money online content he was trying to build.

Alston’s reaction was immediate: that is your thing. Think about the actual market for a custom, hand-designed menorah. Anyone who wants a meaningful Jewish holiday gift for a family member. A synagogue looking for a one-of-a-kind piece. A friend who saw someone making them on TikTok and thought of someone they know. The buyer does not have to practice Judaism themselves. The buyer just has to know someone who would love one. At $175 to $300 per piece, that is not a stretch for a meaningful, personalized gift. And Tyson already knows how to make them, already has the photos to prove the quality, and already lights up when he talks about the process. That is the whole package.

But he almost skipped past that entirely because the internet marketing world had told him the only real path to making money online was to teach other people how to make money online. That is one of the most damaging ideas in this space. It sends people who have real skills, real knowledge, and real niches running toward a market they have no credibility in, when they could be building something unique from what they already carry. Tyson had been sitting on a genuine business the whole time. It took someone outside his head to see it clearly.

Why So Many People End Up in the Wrong Space

The make money online space has a gravitational pull that is hard to explain until you have felt it. You start researching how to earn income online. You find channels, courses, and communities built around that topic. You see the results people are posting. You think: if I am already learning this, why not create content about it? And before you know it, you are trying to position yourself as an expert in a field that is already full of people who have been doing it for years and have real receipts to show.

The problem is that most of the people teaching in that space got there after they had already succeeded at something else first. They built a dropshipping store, made it work, and then started teaching dropshipping. They built a blog that generated affiliate commissions for two years and then started teaching affiliate marketing. The credibility came first. The teaching came second. If you lead with the teaching and have nothing to back it up, you are starting from a deficit that is very hard to recover from.

There are hundreds of niches where a real person with real knowledge could build something genuine. 3D printing custom menorahs is one example. Security cameras was Alston’s first one. He learned about home security systems, built up real knowledge in that space, and created content about what he had actually figured out through experience. That is the model. Start from what you know, what you have done, or what you genuinely want to understand more deeply, not from what you believe pays the most in the abstract.

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When the World Slows Down

Alston describes a shift that happens when your online business starts to work. He calls it the world slowing down. When he was a software developer, every hour was accounted for. Rush to work, rush home, rush to practice, rush to lunch, rush to the gym. The day was a series of sprints with no breathing room between them. That is what a traditional job does to your time, even a good one. You are always reacting to someone else’s calendar.

When he recorded this video, he was walking by Lake Michigan on a weekday morning. No boss to check in with. No permission needed. He had a dentist appointment later that day to get a crown replaced, and he was not stressed about requesting time off or logging the hours somewhere else. He just went. That freedom is not a side effect of making money. It is the actual product. The money makes it possible, but the freedom to move through your own day at your own pace is the thing you were actually working toward.

That shift in pace is something that is hard to fully describe to someone who has not felt it. But once you have, it becomes the main thing you are protecting. You stop tolerating work arrangements that consume your time without giving you anything back. You stop rushing through your own life to meet someone else’s deadline. And when someone asks why you keep going through the hard months when nothing is working yet, you are pointing toward that version of your days, not toward a dollar figure.

How to Find Your Real Why: A Five-Step Framework

Alston’s core advice is simple: dig deeper. When you land on your surface answer, ask why one more time. Keep going until you hit something that actually has weight behind it. Here is a practical way to run that process:

Start with the surface answer. Write down the obvious reason. “I want to make more money.” Fine. Write it down exactly as it comes out. That is your starting point, not your destination. Do not try to make it sound better yet.
Ask why three more times. Why do you want more money? “Because I want freedom.” Why freedom? “Because I hate having to ask permission to go to my kid’s events.” Why does that bother you so much? “Because my dad had to miss mine and I know what that felt like.” Now you are in the actual reason. That is the version worth writing down.
Find the specific memory behind the reason. What is the image or moment that made this real for you? For Alston it was his dad missing basketball games because of third shift. For his mom, it was serving dinner for wealthy families in Highland Park on Thanksgiving night. The more specific and concrete the memory, the more fuel it has when things get hard.
Write it down and put it somewhere you will see it. Alston says pin your why to your chest. He means this literally. When things get hard, which they will, you need to be able to look at the reason and reconnect to it quickly. A vague feeling you sort of remember will not cut it. You need the words in front of you.
Ask the same question about your niche. Why are you choosing the topic you are choosing? If the only honest answer is “I think it pays well,” that is not enough to sustain the work. Find the topic where the answer is “I genuinely know about this” or “I have been through this and want to help others.” That alignment between your why and your niche is what makes content creation sustainable over years instead of months.

The Excuses Are the Mask

Alston calls them mental roadblocks. The list is long and most people can recite it without thinking: I live in the wrong city. I do not have money to invest. I do not look right for video. I am too old. I am too young. I never finished school. I do not have connections. Every one of these is a way of telling yourself the answer is already no, so you do not have to risk finding out for certain by actually trying.

None of those things are actually the obstacle. People have started online businesses from every kind of starting point you can name. The real barrier is not location, appearance, or money. The real barrier is the decision to start and keep going even when there is no evidence yet that it will work out. That is the hard part, and it is hard for everyone, not just for people with your specific circumstances. The circumstances are not what is stopping you. The decision is.

The reason your why matters is precisely because of those moments when the excuses start to look convincing again. Your why is the counter-argument. Your why is the reason the excuses do not win. Hard days happen at every level, Alston is clear about that. Whether you are making $100 a day or $10,000 a day, there will be a day where nothing is working and everything feels pointless. What changes is having something specific and personal to hold onto when that stretch arrives. The people who make it through are not the ones who never hit those days. They are the ones who had something real to come back to when they did.

Find Your Match

Once you have your why, the next practical step is figuring out which path fits you. Not every online business model works for every person. The right match depends on the time you have available, the skills you already carry, what you are willing to learn, and what kind of income structure you want to build. The Platform Proof Finder walks you through those questions and returns a specific recommendation based on your answers, not a generic one. Start at finder.platformproof.com.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why is “I want to make money” not a strong enough reason to start an online business?

Money is a result, not a reason. When results do not come immediately, which is common in the early months of building anything online, the desire for money gives you nothing to hold onto. A deeper why, rooted in a specific personal experience or value, provides the motivation to keep working when the money has not arrived yet. The surface reason runs out. The real reason does not.

How do I actually figure out what my real why is?

Start with the surface answer you already have, then ask why at least three more times. Each answer should point toward something more specific. When you land on a real memory from your life, a concrete image you can see clearly, you have usually found the actual reason. Write it down in your own words, as specifically as possible, before you need it.

Should I enter the make money online niche if I want to teach others?

Only if you have actually made money online yourself. The credibility problem is real and your audience will eventually figure out whether you are speaking from experience or repeating things you found elsewhere. Build the results first, then teach from what you have done. Starting in a space where you already have genuine experience is a much stronger foundation than leading with the teaching before the proof exists.

What is wrong with choosing a niche based purely on how much money it pays?

Content created in a niche you do not care about tends to feel hollow, and audiences pick up on that even if they cannot name what is off. Beyond that, the niches known for paying well are usually the most crowded. A niche you know well and genuinely enjoy talking about is easier to stick with long enough to see results, easier to differentiate in, and more likely to produce content that actually helps people rather than content that is just going through the motions.

What does it feel like when an online business starts working?

Alston describes it as the world slowing down. When your income is no longer tied to a clock someone else controls, the constant rushing stops. You stop needing permission to attend your kids’ events. You stop counting the days off you have left. Your schedule becomes something you manage rather than something imposed on you. That shift in daily pace is often the most meaningful part of the outcome, separate from the income number itself.

How do I pick the right niche for my online business?

Ask yourself two questions: What do I actually know about from experience? And what do I enjoy talking about enough to create content on for the next two years? The best niches sit at the intersection of genuine knowledge and genuine interest. If you have a skill, hobby, profession, or experience that others want to learn from, that is worth exploring seriously before you default to copying the category everyone else is rushing into.

Do I need money to start an online business?

Some models require very little upfront. Affiliate marketing, YouTube content creation, and service-based businesses can all be started with tools you likely already have: a phone, a laptop, and time. The bigger early investment is time, not money. That said, some tools can speed up the process once you are clear on the direction you are going, particularly for building email lists, managing content, or creating digital products at scale.

What should I do when I feel like giving up?

Go back to your why. Not the surface version, but the real one you wrote down before things got hard. Alston is clear that hard days come at every level, whether you are making $100 a day or $10,000. What changes is having something specific and personal to return to when those stretches hit. That is why writing your why down, in your own words, before you need it, is not optional encouragement. It is the practical plan for when things go wrong, because they will.

Sources

Alston Godbolt, “How To Start An Online Business | What’s Your Why?” YouTube video, https://youtu.be/AGR0h7sUHmI
Platform Proof Finder, https://finder.platformproof.com

Helping 1 million working adults make their first $3,000 online with the skills they already have. Alston Godbolt, Platform Proof.